As some of you will notice I am the submissive of Miss_Kitty. I adore her, I serve her, I obey her every whim, but I have a problem.
When I serve Miss_Kitty I am the picture of obedience and willing compliance, but after ejaculation I tend to leave 'Sub Space' and so many of our scenes end at that moment, but with Miss_Kitty embracing her Domme side a little more recently, I wish to serve her further, rather than end the scene with my 'Release'.
My question then is this: What are the best ways to keep a sub in 'Sub Space' after he has achieved physical release, in order that the scene can take some interesting twists and turns which would not have been possible previously?
I was very athletic in school, football, all state wrestling etc and have worked construction most of my life. i am tall and muscular and not the kind of guy to take much from anyone. However, when it comes to the women in my life, in private or in the right situation, I crave the feeling of being dominated, used and providing pleasure to them without thinking of my own.
I have explained to my wife that I want orgasm denial. That is that I am not allowed to orgasm all the time during sexual encounters.
So I have a unique situation here. I'll fill you in!
My sub actually found me. He kind of opened my eyes to this whole thing.
Now, he lives in another state, not too far, at least 5 or 6 hours. However I have a complete separate life from him. I plan on keeping it that way too. I have a very standard old-fashioned relationship, and sometimes I like to break out and have a man do what I want sometimes.
I'm so new to this though, and what I'm looking for are some good and creative ideas I can use on him. He's pretty much told me he wants to feel used and taken advantage of. However, I am not interested in a sexual relationship. He wants to spoil me with money, give me his passwords to his accounts, but I cant think of anything else I should have access to!
So ANY input would be awesome! I was thinking of maybe making him buy something online to wear? Monitoring his social networking pages? He's still new to this as well. But I need some good ideas! So any input!!?
My boyfriend and I enjoy a healthy sub/Dom sex life and he's recently said he wants me to dress as a school girl, which I love! Just want any ideas on how to do this with a dominant twist... Not sure the innocent thong will work with him... Any role play/scenarios welcome.
My wife /Goddess and I have been together for 12 years. Very quickly, into our relationship it was obvious to both of us that SHE ruled the roost AND enjoyed it as did I.
She is 5' 8" as am I but when she has her heels on she can be 6'--to 6' 2". She loves lingerie , hosiery , shoes and boots and has a strong exhibitionist streak and also loves flirting.
One of the "fun' games that I suggested, was that on my birthday, for instance, the present she got for 'me' would ACTUALLY be for HER although I would also get enjoyment from it. eg on my birthday in May, 'my' present was a pair of Louboutin boots for HER. You get the picture.
I am a pretty secretive Dom. I pick my pets carefully. I was at a bar a few weeks ago and a couple approached me and casually asked me back to their place. So I got to thinking "what could I do with a pair of submissives?" twice the fun! They don't know my dirty little secret yet......... hmmm any ideas?
Do you want to be a dominatrix? Either as a lifestyle with your partner, or even just occasionally for fantasy and fun. Basically, you want to have your man crawling along like the pet that he is. You want to show him who’s boss?
Perhaps your husband or partner would like to be dominated by you, but you just don't know where to begin? If you want to make his fantasies (and yours) come true by making him the object of your possession, then, you have come to the right place!
So, where to begin?
The knock on the door came at 8:46 AM. I glanced over my shoulder at him gave a tiny smile and said "You're Late." "I'm sorry" he replied. I sighed and pointed to the center of the room. "You can stand over there. I'll be right with you" I said. Then I went back to reading my book. The long hair did a good job of hiding my face so I couldn't see my bee, but I knew he had to be looking at all of the items that I'd put on display and I was sure that he was also enjoying the eye candy that was me stretched out on the bed. I waited for what seemed like an eternity before I snapped the book shut and swung my legs over to the side of the bed to stand. I slowly walked over to him watching his face as he watched me, feeling confident that I'd brought the goddess of his fantasies to life.
I'm very new at this but thanks to a few books and this website, I'm doing alright. My pet and I live a few hours away from each other. We don't spend a lot of time together. My pet has asked me a few times to think of ways he can feel like he's serving me while we aren't together. I have given one thing. I told him to wear anal beads to bed loosen his butt. That's the only thing I could think of. My question is do you ladies and subs -- Do you have any ideas on what else I can give him to make him feel like he's serving me while we aren't together?
Dear Mistress Blaze. I'm a newbie here, completely and utterly. I recently entered in to a very casual D/s online relationship. Generally in my relationships I find that I'm more submissive, but this tryst has made me realize how much I love being a Domina.