My Mistress has, not just me for Her slave, but another slave too, and She just loooooves to have us ‘entertain’ Her. She has Her immaculate way of pleasing and disciplining us just enough to keep us willing to do anything for Her, and I do mean anything.
I am a brand new Domme and I've me a well experienced sub. He is doing a wonderful job of telling me about his last relationship. I am afraid that he is trying to get that relationship back with someone else instead of moving on. How can I train both him and myself at the same time?
So, I am completely new to the D/s relationship. I have a submissive man who SAYS he wants to be dominated by me, but he is still in a relationship with his Mistress. He says he's not happy, not sure if he wants to remain with her, BUT despite the fact that he expresses interest in serving me, he has managed to NOT carry through on various requests I have made of him, over the course of several weeks.
My name is Dwayne and i'm a 36yr old African American male that has been interested and fairly involved with the bdsm lifestyle and d/s for about a few years. And what i noticed on both sides of the black and white spectrum is a double standard for black males. Even some of the black males themselves unknowingly discriminate against themselves by viewing this lifestyle as something for weak people if you identify as a sub or its something for "the white man". ...
Before I sleep, I think of you
As I awake I think you,
During my day, I think of you
Your authority guides me,
Your control steers me
Your discipline directs me to what I strive to be
Owner of my body, Director of my spirit
I am thankful that I serve you
I hope to honor you in servitude
Submit to you in thought, word and deed
Mold me, transform me into the expression of your desires
I am your property,
I will work so that I may reflect your intentions
Use me, as you see fit, so that I may learn your ways
In gratitude I serve,
In thankfulness I submit
In grace, I accept my punishment
As some of you will notice I am the submissive of Miss_Kitty. I adore her, I serve her, I obey her every whim, but I have a problem.
When I serve Miss_Kitty I am the picture of obedience and willing compliance, but after ejaculation I tend to leave 'Sub Space' and so many of our scenes end at that moment, but with Miss_Kitty embracing her Domme side a little more recently, I wish to serve her further, rather than end the scene with my 'Release'.
My question then is this: What are the best ways to keep a sub in 'Sub Space' after he has achieved physical release, in order that the scene can take some interesting twists and turns which would not have been possible previously?
I was very athletic in school, football, all state wrestling etc and have worked construction most of my life. i am tall and muscular and not the kind of guy to take much from anyone. However, when it comes to the women in my life, in private or in the right situation, I crave the feeling of being dominated, used and providing pleasure to them without thinking of my own.
I have explained to my wife that I want orgasm denial. That is that I am not allowed to orgasm all the time during sexual encounters.
So I have a unique situation here. I'll fill you in!
My sub actually found me. He kind of opened my eyes to this whole thing.
Now, he lives in another state, not too far, at least 5 or 6 hours. However I have a complete separate life from him. I plan on keeping it that way too. I have a very standard old-fashioned relationship, and sometimes I like to break out and have a man do what I want sometimes.
I'm so new to this though, and what I'm looking for are some good and creative ideas I can use on him. He's pretty much told me he wants to feel used and taken advantage of. However, I am not interested in a sexual relationship. He wants to spoil me with money, give me his passwords to his accounts, but I cant think of anything else I should have access to!
So ANY input would be awesome! I was thinking of maybe making him buy something online to wear? Monitoring his social networking pages? He's still new to this as well. But I need some good ideas! So any input!!?
My boyfriend and I enjoy a healthy sub/Dom sex life and he's recently said he wants me to dress as a school girl, which I love! Just want any ideas on how to do this with a dominant twist... Not sure the innocent thong will work with him... Any role play/scenarios welcome.
My wife /Goddess and I have been together for 12 years. Very quickly, into our relationship it was obvious to both of us that SHE ruled the roost AND enjoyed it as did I.
She is 5' 8" as am I but when she has her heels on she can be 6'--to 6' 2". She loves lingerie , hosiery , shoes and boots and has a strong exhibitionist streak and also loves flirting.
One of the "fun' games that I suggested, was that on my birthday, for instance, the present she got for 'me' would ACTUALLY be for HER although I would also get enjoyment from it. eg on my birthday in May, 'my' present was a pair of Louboutin boots for HER. You get the picture.
I am a pretty secretive Dom. I pick my pets carefully. I was at a bar a few weeks ago and a couple approached me and casually asked me back to their place. So I got to thinking "what could I do with a pair of submissives?" twice the fun! They don't know my dirty little secret yet......... hmmm any ideas?
Do you want to be a dominatrix? Either as a lifestyle with your partner, or even just occasionally for fantasy and fun. Basically, you want to have your man crawling along like the pet that he is. You want to show him who’s boss?
Perhaps your husband or partner would like to be dominated by you, but you just don't know where to begin? If you want to make his fantasies (and yours) come true by making him the object of your possession, then, you have come to the right place!
So, where to begin?