I am 100% yours my beautiful Mistress. I worship the water you walk on. You are my Queen. Do whatever you want to me. You own me. You own my heart, my body and my soul. I declare myself to you entirely.
My sub found me. I asked a technician at the dealership I work to scuff my platform stilettos so I wouldn't slip. While standing like a flamingo holding my 5" heel, I noticed the tech next to us couldn't take his eyes of me--he looked physically uncomfortable. Later that day he came to me head down, complimented my shoes and meekly offered to "be of service" in the future. Our interaction was electric and voila! a Mistress is born.
Here is the problem (or is it?): With the exception of his 4" cock, I crave his body. He's simply delicious. While I get such satisfaction from belittling & humiliating him-especially *censored*ing my stud in his presence--sometimes I crave his body against mine just as much. And this is despite the fact he's not been fully trained on how to satisfy me. It's a thin line. My satisfaction is the priority, but it cannot turn into my worshipping the cuckold.
So, a little advice needed on keeping perspective. How do you balance an attraction to your slave with your role as Mistress?
I've just acquired a new sub who is into "Mommy" role play. I want to make sure that I get the most enjoyment out of it. Any advice You can offer will be most appreciated. I absolutely LOVE your website!
My slave boy doesn't understand that I am the one in control. I make it very obvious and punish him when he is wrong. But yet, he still doesn't quite get the hints and clues. Any tips on how to help him see and understand a little better?
Since becoming a Mistress I often feel like when my slave is home that I should make sure to always have something for him to do or that I should being doing something to him. However, since he is the only one working I feel that he should also get some relaxation time when he gets home.
I feel like he always wants to be humilliated or made to do things. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated as I have no been in the role for very long.
My hubby and I have been married 5 years, and recently we have experimented with cuffs and paddles, and he has told me that he is completely turned on by the idea of me being dominant.
So we try it out (thanks to training day ;) but i just don't feel it, I much prefer our love making when he is dominant and I like to be touched and held, where as when he is tied up, the lack of hands feels weird, but he specifically likes being tied.
When I do act the mistress, I feel awkward, like is everything I am doing turning him on? There is just not as much pleasure for me when he is being dominated, he on the other hand loves it.
Its getting to the stage that I'm trying to avoid sex, because I know he wants me to dominate and I just dont enjoy it like that.
So, where do we go from here? He doesnt know how I feel, I dont want to burst his bubble, and I would like to get into it as I know he enjoys it so much.....
I, sissyboyslave7, promise to be obedient, loyal, kind, and loving to Princess Patricia. She is my owner. i am a little bitch. I will do anything and everything she wishes for me to do. i am a pathetic worthless slave to my mistress. I agree to please her in anyway she wants. By signing this, I sissyboyslave7 will be completely controlled by my princess.
I am a sub by nature, but my lover is a sub too. Even though he is normally controlling and an anarchist, his favorite line is, "*eff* the system" and "no one can make me do anything I don't want to do."
We switch roles sometimes. I thought for sure he would love to dominate me, but he likes it when I'm in charge. Actually it's fun and I like being in charge. But it's just that I'm really timid and shy around him, so I tend to freak out. I need to know how to be more confident and what exactly to do. I don't know what he will want or like or if he thinks that it,s weird, and that's what scares me.
Upon returning from our vacation, We/we settled back to where we'd been before, with one exception. I answered well written ads from men who wanted to be dominated on line. Occasionally I'd find genuine, articulate, attractive men who enjoyed having a Goddess (their term) control how and when they came. The Mistress would absolutely insist on abstinence until Her slave pleaded to release. Then, Mistress might send a provocative, but tasteful photo, with long, blond hair covering Her face. The more power they gave Me, the more I demanded from them. I had a good looking, 40 year old man, pulling off the road during a long, congested commute so he could protect expensive suit pants from being ruined by semen he needed to release. another was downloading a picture on an international flight when I gave him permission to cum. The slave made his way to the bathroom, donned a condom, returned to his seat, and opened his laptop, which was covering his hands. While viewing the photo, My sub stroked himself until he came.
I am new to the Dom/sub thing and I am getting married. I love my husband and he is perfect. Our sex is even good, but I need something he won't give me, so I have a f--- friend who I have always kept around for sex when I needed it. This friend and I dabble in BDSM, even switching roles from time to time. I like the whole separate life excitement thing it does it for me. My friend is a kink.
We text when we're feeling frisky and one day he just throws this out there...."I want you to lick my asshole, is that going to be a problem?" wow. Well, my mantra is try everything in life once, so I didn't shoot him down. What I'm looking for is some advice about getting into ass play with a guy who wants to be probed but not *f*ed with a strap on. What are my limits? How do I push his?