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May 24, 2013

Dominant/submissive Shower Scene play

Contributed by: Webmistress ~ August 03, 2010

There is nothing quite as satisfying as the perfect resonating sound of your bare hand forcefully meeting his soapy, dripping wet ass in the shower. Try this scene and feel dirty while you are getting clean.

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Caught my slave/husband playing with himself.. What shall I do?

Contributed by: Mistressbarbara ~ July 26, 2010

I keep him in chastity unless of course I want him out, along with his sexy lingerie. I have sex with him 3-4 times a week, but only let him orgasm once, if he's been good all week, and the other 3-4 days he pleasing me with his tounge.. About a week ago I went to meet my girlfriend for breakfast, but before leaving I put a collar round his neck and tied it to the headboard, and rope round his balls and tied them to the foot board, and left him unchastized (trusting or not thinking he would be bad). I left the house, but had forgotten my phone. I returned not even 5 minutes later, walked into the bedroom and there he was, hand round "my" cock!

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Bondage?

Contributed by: LadySabrina ~ July 16, 2010

New Domme here, just starting out. What role, if any, does bondage play in the D/s relationship?

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Cruelty

Contributed by: jam7 ~ June 21, 2010

Does cruelty have to be a part of being a Mistress/Dominatrix?

I am a sub by nature, but my husband would like me to dominate him. I don't have a problem spanking him, pinching playfully, but the idea of out right cruelty does nothing for me and I don't think that's what he is looking for either although I will discuss this with him shortly.

I guess what I am really asking is...do you have to be mean? I have looked at many sites, this one being by far the best and most helpful, but haven't read anything about the idea of "light" dominance. I know it's really about what you and your partner want and are looking for, but any answers, suggestions and tips will be greatly appreciated.

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New at this but so totally old to it too!!

Contributed by: MissKitty013 ~ June 21, 2010

OK I am new at being a "Miss" (Mistress or Ma'am make me feel old so I have INSISTED he calls me Miss)

BUT he is wanting to be more of my cuckhold slave and really wants to be my enuch slave.
I love the attention and all that - but afraid of taking on a sub/slave full time....what do all of you think?

Thanks fellow Ma'am's or Miss's or Madam Wonderfuls for any help you can give me.
And you must beg forgiveness first sub's before answering...

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Making fantasy into Reality

Contributed by: Dizzylizzy0420 ~ June 10, 2010

I've fantasized about dominating a man/woman for a long time, but actually doing it is harder than I expected. I know what to say, do, and wear but I can't make the words come out. Sometimes I chuckle a little from nerves. I can't be mean. Any advice on how to get over this.

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My Lucky Day

Contributed by: choreboy ~ June 01, 2010

�How long has it been?� you ask over your shoulder as you wiggle your ass against my hard cock. I kiss the warm flesh at the base of your neck and push back with my hips.

�Three weeks as of tomorrow.�

�And I think you�ve brought me off about 15 times with the vibrator and that pretty mouth of yours since then.�

�Chastity makes me hungry.�

�Well, this could be your lucky day. You think you�re ready?�

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He wants forced feminization...

Contributed by: Lady Gray ~ May 31, 2010

Hello ladies! My sub recently confessed to me that his greatest sexual desire is to be forced into wearing women's panties and corsets.

I am into several levels of domination, but this idea has never occurred to me, and although I would never admit it to my pet, it intimidates me. I am still very reluctant to the idea because it sounds so foreign.

Despite this, I would like to overcome this perception to give my sub new levels of humiliation. Were any other of you Mistresses intimidated by this at first? How did you get over it?

This website is fabulous!
Lady Gray

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Safe Sane and Consensual Blackmailing

Contributed by: Miss Sadi Stick ~ May 24, 2010

My puppy is into being blackmailed, so he can't weasel out of being my slave. The first time we met I asked to see his license to see if he was who he said he was. I then took it to a copier and copied it, telling him he could never get away from me. I also threatened to put up �lost dog� posters around his town if he misbehaved.

I�m going to take lots of pictures of him in the new panties I will graciously give him. Haven�t decided on what yet, perhaps just an old pair of mine; if I feel he�s earned it.

What other blackmail idea�s do you have, that while scare him, are safe, sane and consensual. I am not afraid to do it, I just want to do it right.

Miss Sadi Stick

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Fantasy to reality?

Contributed by: choreboy ~ May 17, 2010

Judging from the huge and growing market for femdom porn sites, many millions of men have fantasies about taking the subordinate role with strong women. Of those millions, a tiny handful have actually experienced love or sex in which both people acknowledge that the woman is dominant. (I'm guessing.)

Women, should the rest of those guys give up? What would it take to make it both safe and attractive for more women to try on the pants? What gave you the courage to be assertive and on top in your relationship? Do you think our culture is changing in ways that make this a more appealing, more possible way to be for you?

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Genie Dreams of Me - Part 3

Contributed by: choreboy ~ May 04, 2010

In earlier installments of this story, a superior spouse uses sexual control of her household genie to win seven wishes for the day, beginning with a thorough housecleaning. After a pause for punishment, she wishes for a delicious outdoor luncheon and hard labor in her garden. Episode two ended as our mistress dozed off from wine, warm sun and the afterglow of her fourth wish, the world�s most powerful recorded orgasm, administered orally by her supernatural helper...

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Keeping it going? Make him wait?

Contributed by: control ~ April 24, 2010

I am new to this, but having a really good time with it. My sub and I have had several fun sessions of bondage, orgasm denial and some very good punishments, which we both enjoyed. Yesterday I had been teasing his cock all day and he was very hopeful for the evening.

I am a professional athlete and very physically active, and come last night, to be honest, just wanted to sleep. However my sub had been very well behaved, and really wanted this, and since I do care about him I wanted him to have what he had been waiting so patiently for. We had a session last night that was 'so-so'. He says he still had fun, but I don't like to give a bad performance.

My question is, in a situation like this, should I just have made him wait, or are there some tricks for giving your pet a well-deserved reward when you are not feeling like a full-on scene, without letting him forget who is boss?

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