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Welcome to Arena Blaze
June 18, 2013

Welcome to Arena Blaze

Learn Female Dominance - How to Become a Dominatrix

Welcome to Blaze's Arena. ...It's time to play.

So you�re interested in domination.

You want to have your man crawling along like the pet that he is, right? You want to show him who�s boss?

You want to make his fantasies (and yours) come true by making him the object of your possession? Oh, my friend, you have come to the right place!

Here you will find everything you need to know about looking the part, setting the scene and learning the ropes. Leather divas and naughty girls in training. Learn how to become a Dominatrix.

Mistress Blaze and her associates will teach you.

Get ready to be BLAZED!!!

TOPICS:

The Art of Authority � Domination 101
Learn the ropes, get the gear. Everything you need to go from mundane to me-ow!

Scenes to Play � Ready to Dive In?
Blaze will help you set the stage for your lover�s fantasy and give you the links and the knowhow to make it go.

Look The Part
What�s your Dominatrix style? It�s all out there. From leather to corsets, school-girl to head mistress, it's here.

Reader Fiction
Have you written some swanky sultry Dominatrix scenes? Share them here and inspire. Works from Dommes and subs are welcome!

Bondage and the Buzz � Toy Review
From rope to spankers, to the latest in battery powered amusements, find it all in Blaze�s toybox.

Lubricous Modulation � Mind Your Music
The right music can make a hot scene explode! Get your dominance on, with a little help from servant "j"

Slave Contracts
Publicly declare ownership or have him submit himself as your property. Click Here to post to the slave contract topic.

Reader Q & A
Ask and Answer questions for each other, and Blaze will join in as well. Blaze always encourages participation. Contribute stories, experiences, and learn from each other tips for being a Dominatrix.

Begin reading in the topics listed here, or browse individual articles below. For more reading, check out recommendations on Blaze's Book List. And don't miss the article on Safety First before putting anything into practice!

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Training Day - Begin your Dominatrix journey Here

Contributed by: Mistress_Blaze

All good pets have to be trained, right? Well today is training day for your man-pet. This is obedience school, and you�re the teacher!

This is a great scene for beginning doms and is a great way to teach your man his place. It�s also a good idea to repeat this scene on a regular basis, so no one forgets who the alpha dog is.

Sit! Stay! Good boy!

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Travel with Bondage Toys

Contributed by: Mistress Jill ~ December 18, 2012

Has anyone traveled with their bondage toys? I am looking to bring my submissive on a vacation and can't imagine going without my restraints, collars, toys, and attire. However, I am concerned about TSA and don't want to have any of these items confiscated. How am I expected to enjoy vacation without keeping myself satisfied?

Any advice? ~ Mistress Jill

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Smoking Domination

Contributed by: snowtires14 ~ November 23, 2012

I don't smoke and never have but I've had these insanely erotic fantasies, to me anyway, of being dominated by a woman who smoked. There are many such manifestations of these fantasies for me. Here is one for your thoughts and consideration...

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The Day She Dressed Me

Contributed by: snowtires14 ~ November 20, 2012

This is posted in the reader fiction but it's an experience that actually happened to me....

I dated a woman some time ago that tapped into something that drove me nuts. For this story I'll call her Sarah. One day, while we were having sex, she reached for a lipstick and put it on. Then she teased me with it. I came instantly when she touched it to my lips and she knew I was open to more. We talked about it through the weekend and each time we did my erection told her I was all in. She said she wanted to dress me as a woman and have sex with me. I wasn't about to argue with her.

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My Pleasure, His Punishment: Controlling My Own Orgasm

Contributed by: jteazer ~ October 24, 2012

There he was. My slave, naked, shackled hands over his head, begging forgiveness and pleading to release. his bottom was deep red from the feel of My crop. his throbbing penis, became My next target. I placed clothes pins on his ball sack and then began running the tip of My switch up and down the underside of his fully erect dick. The tease was swiftly followed by quick, sharp, stinging, taps finding their mark on My submissive's testicles and cock. his increasingly desperate and pathetic pleas for permission to cum moved Me not at all.

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Camping

Contributed by: 69camaro69 ~ September 08, 2012

My favorite Bitch goes to the showers. I follow and begin to pound on the door.

He opens the door, �Yes Mistress? He questions with a smile.

I push him backwards and step in. I lock the door behind me. He is glistening with wetness from the shower as his rock hard cock juts out in front of him.

�Who does your body belong to?� I snarl.

�My body belongs to you Mistress.�

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No Longer Vanilla

Contributed by: 69camaro69 ~ August 02, 2012

I had my bag of trix� He asked for me to dominate the situation yet we were both entering uncharted waters. For over 3 years of our relationship we shared subtle fantasies, but never expected to have the adventure we dreamed about. How would he receive the scene I prepared? I spent days mentally preparing myself, I could do this and I could do it well. The time had arrived, no backing out now. We checked into the hotel. I ordered him to take off all his clothes and kneel in front of me. I lit some candles, vanilla. I smiled knowing nothing would ever be vanilla for us again�

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Height and Dominance

Contributed by: Mistress Ryn ~ July 15, 2012

I have a question obviously, but before I get into that....I just wanted to thank you so much for having this site :) It's been incredibly helpful to me as I begin to explore the world of femdom, and I'm grateful to you for such helpful resources. :)

My boyfriend and I were both virgins before each other, and while we both knew we had an interest in femdom even before each other, we are only just starting to explore it. We have a close, loving relationship, and live together. We are both interested in a more mild form of femdom that never involves pain. He is very good and willing to submit to me in sexual aspects despite being older than I am and holding the traditional male role in the romantic aspect of our relationship. That's how we both want it and we're an impossibly perfect match.

Now for the problem...

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Can you be both a Dom & Sub?

Contributed by: browneyes ~ July 12, 2012

I find that I want to be both a Dominatrix and submissive. ....Is that even allowed? Please let me explain. With my "Love" that I am with now, We have a lot in common. We both were abused when we were younger and cause of this both of us have secrets needs.... he likes to be dominated and I find that I love nothing more then smacking his sweet little behind and riding him hard with my strap-on just the way he needs when Ms. Beatty wants to come out and play (he he he). But I don't see me being a Dom to anyone else but him. There is a bond that we share because of our past.

But I have other desires like his to be spanked, and even though "my Love" will do anything to please Ms. Beatty he can't bare to hurt her.

Truth be told my fantasy is to have a bigger man then him dominate me.

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From Boyfriend to Sub

Contributed by: Conor ~ June 26, 2012

My girlfriend and I have been together for some time now. When we first met, she let me ride her, and even enact some of my more extreme fantasies on her. Over time, though, she started to change-in a good way. It was very subtle, but my girlfriend was becoming more dominant.

I suppose it began in the second year of our relationship. We were lying together in bed, when suddenly she jumped on me and started *censored*ing me. Of course, by the end I was on top and she was subject to my demands, but it was clear she had started the sex when she wanted to. it built up from there, and within a few months, she wouldn't let me ride her, unless she gave express permission. I didn't complain, as it was extremely pleasurable and I found I enjoyed the feeling of being under a woman.

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HEEELP - want to surprise him with his fantasy

Contributed by: mistressinhiding ~ June 10, 2012

I am dating this guy that I was friends with prior to. We have had a few conversations talking about his fetishes and those sorts. Well, I went through his phone and found some conversations he was having with a few girls online, and it really got me interested. They talked to him like complete shit. As weird as this sounds, it turned me on. So I'm searching the mistress and domination thing and I want some examples. Scenes, things to say wear etc. I don't want to freak him out, however I want to completely catch him off guard he isn't excepting it because I'm a nice girl...:) I know he is into the financial dom and humiliation. ADVICE PLEASE

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Direction

Contributed by: mistress12 ~ May 19, 2012

I am new to this whole world, I have someone in my life that wishes me to own him. He wants me to give him commands, I am very shy because I do not see this man as taking orders. He is the one who gives them, but he wants me to take control of him. I really want to give him what he wants and desires and I am happy that he has thought of me as the one to give it to him. I have purchased the boots, some outfits, stuff like that but he wants me to give him more communication. Please help I am having fun with this and him I would like to please.

In need of some help.

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