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 Welcome to Arena Blaze
 May 18, 2012
Welcome to Arena Blaze

Learn Female Dominance - How to Become a Dominatrix

Be a Dominatrix Welcome to Blaze's Arena. ...It's time to play.

So you’re interested in domination.

You want to have your man crawling along like the pet that he is, right? You want to show him who’s boss?

You want to make his fantasies (and yours) come true by making him the object of your possession? Oh, my friend, you have come to the right place!

Here you will find everything you need to know about looking the part, setting the scene and learning the ropes. Leather divas and naughty girls in training. Learn how to become a Dominatrix.

Mistress Blaze and her associates will teach you. 

Get ready to be BLAZED!!!

 TOPICS:

The Art of Authority – Domination 101
Learn the ropes, get the gear. Everything you need to go from mundane to me-ow!

Set the SceneScenes to Play – Ready to Dive In?
Blaze will help you set the stage for your lover’s fantasy and give you the links and the knowhow to make it go.

Look The PartLook The Part
What’s your Dominatrix style? It’s all out there. From leather to corsets, school-girl to head mistress, it's here.

Look The PartReader Fiction
Have you written some swanky sultry Dominatrix scenes? Share them here and inspire. Works from Dommes and subs are welcome!

 Bondage Buzz - Toy ReviewBondage and the Buzz – Toy Review
From rope to spankers, to the latest in battery powered amusements, find it all in Blaze’s toybox.

Music SelectionLubricous Modulation – Mind Your Music
The right music can make a hot scene explode! Get your dominance on, with a little help from servant "j"

Slave ContractsSlave Contracts
Publicly declare ownership or have him submit himself as your property. Click Here to post to the slave contract topic.

Reader ContributionsReader Q & A
Ask and Answer questions for each other, and Blaze will join in as well. Blaze always encourages participation. Contribute stories, experiences, and learn from each other tips for being a Dominatrix.
Begin reading in the topics listed here, or browse individual articles below. For more reading, check out recommendations on Blaze's Book List. And don't miss the article on Safety First before putting anything into practice!

But, before you do anything else, follow us! Do it right now.

Training Day - Begin your Dominatrix journey Here

    
Contributed by: Mistress_Blaze
Scenes to PlayAll good pets have to be trained, right? Well today is training day for your man-pet. This is obedience school, and you’re the teacher!

This is a great scene for beginning doms and is a great way to teach your man his place. It’s also a good idea to repeat this scene on a regular basis, so no one forgets who the alpha dog is.

Sit! Stay! Good boy!
 
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Dominant-Submissive fiction is Number One right now		    
Contributed by: Webmistress ~ May 15, 2012

Reader Q & AThe current number one selling book at Amazon right now is about a Dominant/submissive couple. It's called, 50 Shades of Grey. Apparently we are finally getting the word out! While the Dom in this book is the male, there is still plenty to learn from this, and it will get your creative juices flowing (If you know what I mean!)
 
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Sexy Elixirs		    
Contributed by: slave6 ~ May 10, 2012

Scenes to PlayMy Mistress usually has me make a ‘slave elixir’ and a ‘Mistress Cock-tail’ to get our sessions started. It has become part of Her ritual and the idea is so neat to me. It’s like I’m going under Her spell when I drink it. We have very pretty, dedicated glasses we use only for this special sexy occasion. The slave tonic is a little bit kin to a LIT but it does have a ‘secret aphrodisiac’ ingredient. It is strong and helps me with being able to physically and mentally serve and service my smokin hot Lady. My Mistress tells me what to put in it and how much and, I guess it’s through conditioning that my cock actually begins getting stiff while I’m making it!
 
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Toilet Training, Mommy Play and Puppy Play		    
Contributed by: Mistress Storm ~ May 05, 2012

Reader Q & AMy man has asked me to research toilet training as he wants to do it lol. I don't really know much about it or what to do at all and I really want to please him and play with him. So, an you please help me with this and at least tell me where to go to find something to read on the subject. Also he is interested in Mommy play and I can sort of figure it out but I would still like to do some reading on it. Same thing for puppy play. Thank you for this awesome site.
 
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"The Outfit" 		   
Contributed by: Webmistress ~ May 04, 2012

Look the PartMy latest purchase. Gawd I can't wait to whip some ass in my fine new leathers.... ;-) The corset is lovely because its laces up the back so it *always* fits just right.
 
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Apparel Starters for Plus Size Dommes		    
Contributed by: Mistress Storm ~ April 25, 2012

Look the PartI do not feel sexy and it is because I am a very short, large woman, but my man loves me the way I am, and he thinks I'm sexy. The problem is that I need to feel it too in order to be that confident Domme he wants to experience. I have looked around on your site at the clothing section and saw many things that I would love to wear, but I want to look my best and at the moment have little to spend. My man loves the fishnet stockings, body stocking and black latex/patent and also leather. I love the Goth look and feel of some clothing, but I really want to hide my belly as much as possible and still get a good look going. Can you suggest some of the clothing items to begin with until I have managed to lose a little more weight please?
 
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Leather Dominatrix Outfit		    
Contributed by: Webmistress ~ April 17, 2012

Look the PartLooking for a leather dominatrix outfit? You may be browsing for the real deal, or just looking for more of a costume for some fantasy play or Halloween. In any case, you want to look hot in your leather outfit and exude the power of the dominatrix that you are. Embrace that inner bitch, and wrap her in leather.
 
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Brand Spanking New Domme		    
Contributed by: Mistress Ananda ~ April 16, 2012

Reader Q & AI just found out my guy is really into being dominated but I'm such a sub that I would be happy to do this for him. Confusing to begin with, but aside from that I have no idea where to start. What should be punished? What should be rewarded? And which is what? Also how can you make having that kind of attitude less tiring? I know I'm asking for a lot but anything you can give me would be so helpful.
 
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Bull Whip - There's An App for That		    
Contributed by: Webmistress ~ April 15, 2012

Bondage Buzz-Toy ReviewA virtual whip. Amuse yourself with this app, until you're able to get full training on using a real whip! I was completely tickled by this app and have found great use for it as a "warning signal" when my little doggie is starting to stray from good behavior. Since he's had a taste of the real thing, just the mere sound of my little pocket whip brings back memories of pain and obedience. Best part is that it's free. Download it here: Pocket Whip
 
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New punishment ideas? - for long distance domination		    
Contributed by: Mistress G ~ April 15, 2012

Reader Q & AI am currently learning how to be a Dominatrix and have found a willing sub and I have to say I am loving it so far. I did not really have a clue where to start but found this site and read it all before beginning. I found it the most helpful thing to me yet, so thank you.

My problem is not only am I new, but my sub is as well PLUS he lives miles away from me. I have read the Q&As on long distance and telephone domination and am grateful for the help there. Can anyone offer anything further. Given we are quite restricted I fear the novelty will wear off and there is a chance I can put this into practice in person with him soon, so don't want to ruin it.
 
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Follow Blaze on Twitter -- Feed Your Inner Bitch		    
Contributed by: Webmistress ~ April 15, 2012

General News Dominatrix tips and quips that will even inspire regular people to explore their inner Domme.

Mistress Blaze finally got a Twitter account. I'm always telling her that her funny retorts would make great tweets, and she is finally on board. But she isn't going to use it much if you bitches don't get over there and follow her! If you prefer to call it "stalking", that's ok too!

Obedient subs are also welcome to follow our Twitter feed, but don't expect any attention boys. You'll have to earn it, or have permission from your Mistress.

Here's the link: http://twitter.com/ArenaBlaze

 
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Silent Seduction		    
Contributed by: Tiger_69 ~ April 02, 2012

Reader Fiction(I wrote this for my mistress and while I'm sure its rather tame as most stories go I'm posting this at her request, and as a good pet I am complying with my Mistresses wishes. I hope you enjoy it none the less.)


I come home from work and enter the house. You are nowhere to be seen, I call your name and you appear from around a corner wearing a great big smile, one of my dress shirts buttoned up to just below your bra your breasts visible, a mini skirt that barely covers your ass and thigh high lace up boots. Your stop and spin around so that I can get a good look at you, my mouth hung open in disbelief at the sight In front of me. You start toward me again with an exaggerated wiggle in your hips, trailing your hand along the wall again you say nothing, you just smile. You walk up to me and stand inches away from my face you move in to kiss me but stop short of my lips and just kind of tease me.
 
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