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So, you bought yourself a sweet leather flogger. This is my all time favorite whipping toy, for my favorite whipping boy! Some of you lack confidence about how to use the thing, or you are worried that you might actually *hurt* him.
Well, have no fear my dears, for I have some tips to get you fired up about flogging! Blaze helped me write up this scene for you first-time floggers, who need some experience at giving a licking while keeping him ticking!
This scene should help you get over your fear of hurting him (SO over it), AND give you the confidence needed to really wail on his ass. I will teach you how to whip a man and really enjoy doing it.
the Quality of the function was only as good as the quality of the resources. I'm sad to say, money would have made this better. But unlike most dining experiences, there was more than a one-to-one ratio of helpers, vs guests. Each guest had a slave who brought them food, and helped with other requests, I was a slutty sub who got to pander to all guests, serving them drinks and more.
Though I'm often in my french maid outfit, this night all of us subs & slaves were reduced further by wearing the same garb: 2 meters of cheap fabric draped over us, with a hole in the middle, with a piece of rope for a belt. To say simply, only some of us could really pull it off. and they say the clothes make the.. ahem..
I'm not much for styles, but I've kept that piece of fabric in a special place for a long time.
New to D/s bedroom only play and had questions regarding a collar. I really love the idea of seeing my husband slave in a collar. However, it seems like there is some special significance to this in the community. Am I going to get black listed for not paying my respects to the importance of the collar as a symbol?
Provided your answer is that it's cool to use a collar, then follow up question is- how do you use a collar during playtime? Keeping in mind bedroom only and I like the collars with the rings in them.
At least once a year I enjoy a four day, summertime trip into the city. Because the accommodations must meet some very specific requirements, My submissive makes reservations well in advance.
The demands are very clear. It must be a two bathroom suite, with at least one king sized bed, a refrigerator, stove, and microwave. The room should be above the 15th floor, and have large windows over looking a park and busy office building. The park is beautiful, the office building interesting, and an inspiration for play.
Over the years I've peered across the way and found many a man spending hours working at his desk. Occasionally I'll find an attractive one. How do I know he's appealing? My sub, packing high powered binoculars, has the job of inspecting his Mistress' prey and describing him to Her. It's a task he's had before. Sometimes it's up close and personal, in a lounge, club, or on the beach. Other times he has to dial a little long distance.
It begins simply enough. If I spy someone that interests Me, he's instructed to undress completely, take a look, from a darkened adjoining room and provide some details. he knows what I'm looking for. Tall, fit, good looking, neatly dressed, 35-55 years of age. A couple of times I've struck gold.
Do you know what it's like to be afraid of the one who brings you to levels of unbridled ecstasy beyond the reaches of the imagination? Imagine, for a moment, you return to the home you've made with your lover, your master. You've been gone much of the day, and the sun is nearing the horizon as you walk through the door of your well kept home. It's not elaborately decorated by any means, quite sparse to be honest, virtually cold if not for the soft music in the background, a mixture of heavenly violin with melancholic piano, an angelic whisper singing sweetly along to the hum of the piano.
I would really like my wife to dominate me wearing a snow white costume. For some reason I find her very sexy. I like dress up sexy but my problem is I can cum to soon and would like to be turned on for longer. I'm not someone who gets turned on by nakedness as I do like things covered (I know lol, I'm wiered) plus piercings and tattoos are a big turn off. So I'm gonna try and see if I can persuade her. I brought some whips and cuffs in case it happens just gotta wait for a good time to ask her.
I am thinking my wife may be into being a dominatrix but is afraid to let go and embrace it. I have noticed she likes twisting my nipples and slapping my...not sure if I can be graphic on this site so I will say my pole. She also likes pinching my butt and things like that which cause pain. She can be rough.
I finally think I connected the dots that she may be a dominatrix at heart but afraid to admit it to herself.
Has anyone traveled with their bondage toys? I am looking to bring my submissive on a vacation and can't imagine going without my restraints, collars, toys, and attire. However, I am concerned about TSA and don't want to have any of these items confiscated. How am I expected to enjoy vacation without keeping myself satisfied?
I don't smoke and never have but I've had these insanely erotic fantasies, to me anyway, of being dominated by a woman who smoked. There are many such manifestations of these fantasies for me. Here is one for your thoughts and consideration...