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 Welcome to Arena Blaze
 January 27, 2012
Welcome to Arena Blaze

Learn Female Dominance - How to Become a Dominatrix

Be a Dominatrix Welcome to Blaze's Arena. ...It's time to play.

So you’re interested in domination.

You want to have your man crawling along like the pet that he is, right? You want to show him who’s boss?

You want to make his fantasies (and yours) come true by making him the object of your possession? Oh, my friend, you have come to the right place!

Here you will find everything you need to know about looking the part, setting the scene and learning the ropes. Leather divas and naughty girls in training. Learn how to become a Dominatrix.

Mistress Blaze and her associates will teach you. 

Get ready to be BLAZED!!!

 TOPICS:

The Art of Authority – Domination 101
Learn the ropes, get the gear. Everything you need to go from mundane to me-ow!

Set the SceneScenes to Play – Ready to Dive In?
Blaze will help you set the stage for your lover’s fantasy and give you the links and the knowhow to make it go.

Look The PartLook The Part
What’s your Dominatrix style? It’s all out there. From leather to corsets, school-girl to head mistress, it's here.

Look The PartReader Fiction
Have you written some swanky sultry Dominatrix scenes? Share them here and inspire. Works from Dommes and subs are welcome!

 Bondage Buzz - Toy ReviewBondage and the Buzz – Toy Review
From rope to spankers, to the latest in battery powered amusements, find it all in Blaze’s toybox.

Music SelectionLubricous Modulation – Mind Your Music
The right music can make a hot scene explode! Get your dominance on, with a little help from servant "j"

Slave ContractsSlave Contracts
Publicly declare ownership or have him submit himself as your property. Click Here to post to the slave contract topic.

Reader ContributionsReader Q & A
Ask and Answer questions for each other, and Blaze will join in as well. Blaze always encourages participation. Contribute stories, experiences, and learn from each other tips for being a Dominatrix.
Begin reading in the topics listed here, or browse individual articles below. For more reading, check out recommendations on Blaze's Book List. And don't miss the article on Safety First before putting anything into practice!


Training Day - Begin your Dominatrix journey Here

    
Contributed by: Mistress_Blaze
Scenes to PlayAll good pets have to be trained, right? Well today is training day for your man-pet. This is obedience school, and you’re the teacher!

This is a great scene for beginning doms and is a great way to teach your man his place. It’s also a good idea to repeat this scene on a regular basis, so no one forgets who the alpha dog is.

Sit! Stay! Good boy!
 
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Comments (48)

Too cute?		    
Contributed by: stormblast ~ January 19, 2012

Reader Q & ADear Mistress Blaze,

It seems every where I look, its the strong, sexy, streamlined, dominatrix. This is kind of an issue, because I am more in the cute, almost gothic lotia cute, zone. I know that there is no way on this earth I will ever be slave material, but is it even possible to be a... I don't know, a cute dominatrix? Is "cute and deadly" a no no?

Thanks


 
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I want a Servant not a Slave		    
Contributed by: determined2doit ~ January 10, 2012

Reader Q & AMy first steps in taking control:
I have purchased a "red rider" strap-on and taken his virgin ass several times... He is broken in and ready to accept more...
Every morning I insert a catheter and direct him to kneel as he swallows my "magic Nectar"... This is to remind him throughout the day that I am in charge...
I don't want him doing house work and have hired a cleaning service so that he may pay more attention to his Queen... I want a servant, not a slave...
If anyone would like to comment or give advise I look forward to reading and responding to your letters...
JR
 
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What Can I say?		    
Contributed by: Chloemae ~ January 05, 2012

Reader Q & AHe's into the whole humiliation thing and were both new to this, but we really like it!

I'm just not really sure what to say :/ I want to write a sort of script, but I have no idea what to say really. X
 
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My Contract To Mistress Elise		    
Contributed by: 25000slave ~ December 29, 2011

Slave ContractsDear Mistress Elise,
I pledge my mind, body and soul to you, I pledge my slavery to you and therefore that makes me yours. I will serve you until the end of time. You are my owner, my goddess, my princess, my mistress, my lady who owns my life and I am your bitch, pet, servant and slave. You may do whatever you wish to me as you own every single inch of me , I will promise to follow any little command that you say to please you and accept my punishment if I disobey or do it wrong. I will worship you daily and nightly and even when I’m away from you.
I, 25000slave pledge my life to my mistress Elise, she has the power of making me do anything she wishes
I love you mistress
Signed by 25000slave
 
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As you wish, Mistress E.		    
Contributed by: slaveformonster ~ December 16, 2011

Slave ContractsI give myself to you as your property, mistress. I bow down to you as a play thing for your amusement and pleasure. I thank you for accepting me as your slave. You are my goddess, my princess, my owner. I shall bend to your every whim immediately, and without question. I shall wait upon you hand and foot. I shall thank you for not humiliating me publicly by being exceedingly obedient, so much so that I serve your needs without consistent prompting. I will always walk on your right, as you wish.

~Your new eager slave
 
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Switches?		    
Contributed by: foreverbunny ~ December 14, 2011

Reader Q & ACan a switch ever make a good Dom or Domme? If so, how do you make your transition from submissive to Dominant more smoothly?

So, in the past, I thought I'd be into domination, if anything... Then my S.O. (let's call him "E") had entertained some of what I thought were just pure fantasy incest fetishes... Then I realized, I didn't just want a daddy in bed, I wanted a Daddy Dom! So he did an actual scene with me in a hotel room one night. I had the BEST time in my entire life, and E enjoyed the *perks* (enthusiastic oral sex) but not so much the role he was playing... He also has issues that we're working on to make him more comfortable with the role and demanding sexual favors.

Then later he said he's interested in switching roles and trying it out. It's only fair that if he fulfills my submissive needs, that I would fulfill his! (Thus why I am here.) I'm not as uncomfortable with being dominant as he is. I'm starting to really enjoy planning what I'm going to do to E and make him submit to:) I think I might enjoy it almost as much as submission.


Thanks in advance for your input!
 
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Help! Trash talk input needed!		    
Contributed by: Mistress Carolyn ~ December 13, 2011

Reader Q & AI'm reading everything I can get my hands on about being a Mistress to my sub. he found ME, and has unleashed something in me that I knew was there but didn't knowhow to bring it out.This man is a dream come true....a complete sub...and I fully intend to make him my pet and to keep him at my side (or feet). He needs (begs) to be Dominated in every way. To be trampled, stomped on, smothered,punched, choked...humiliated. He is definately a massochist - and wants nothing more than to be mistreated and beaten. All of which I can do...and enjoy what it does to him, to break him down completely and at my command. To the vanilla world he is very much an Alpha-type... But knowing I can bring him to his knees with a command, with a look, that he wants nothing more than to serve ME, obey, worship every part of me...is SO EMPOWERING!

We have a connection thats electric! Emotional and physical, so its no surprise to me that the only thing I struggle with is talking to him and trashing him verbally. He craves to be told hes a worthess sub thats unworthy of any of my attention,except it needs to be crude, filthy, the dirtier the better.

Yes,I can cuss like anyone else! I can be dirty in my descriptions of what I want or want to do to him, but because I care deeply for him...the rest is difficult! I need advice! Anything to help me.with the right dialogue!! I posted this yesterday but as a reply...sorry!
 
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Coupon Codes for Toy shopping		    
Contributed by: Webmistress ~ December 04, 2011

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Follow Blaze on Twitter -- Feed Your Inner Bitch		    
Contributed by: Webmistress ~ December 01, 2011

General News Dominatrix tips and quips that will even inspire regular people to explore their inner Domme.

Mistress Blaze finally got a Twitter account. I'm always telling her that her funny retorts would make great tweets, and she is finally on board. But she isn't going to use it much if you bitches don't get over there and follow her! If you prefer to call it "stalking", that's ok too!

Obedient subs are also welcome to follow our Twitter feed, but don't expect any attention boys. You'll have to earn it, or have permission from your Mistress.

Here's the link: http://twitter.com/ArenaBlaze

 
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First time of bdsm might also be the last time		    
Contributed by: SUBway ride ~ November 29, 2011

Reader Q & AMy girlfriend and I have been together for just under a year now, our relationship is quite serious, as in we are planning on marriage type of serious. We recently brought bondage and mistress play into our sex life (which consisted mainly of vanilla sex and her fetish of fantasy rape).

The first time we tried it, I was in absolute ecstasy, and couldn't get enough of it (its pretty much my biggest fetish now) and she seemed to enjoy herself as well. However, after 2 more sessions, she said that she was "bored" of being a mistress and no longer wanted to include it in our sex life. Obviously, this is VERY frustrating, and after getting a taste of the ecstasy of being dominated I can't just let go of it...

Is there any way to re-ignite her interest in femdom play? Any way to make her un-bored of it? Is it because she would rather be dominated by me (due to her fetish for fantasy rape)? How do I solve this?? I don't wanna lose my mistress!
 
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More sub then Dominatrix		    
Contributed by: Unsure ~ November 26, 2011

Reader Q & AMy husband wants me to dominate him, now I have tried before but it never seems to work. Partly because he does make it challenging and I am more comfortable assuming the role of sub then Dom. I'm fine when we first start but then I get really nervous and insecure about what I'm doing. Last night I even tried your "Training Day" scene but he would only half listen to what I told him and for punishment he laughed. I will take any advise I can get. I just need help.
 
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