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 November 23, 2008

Scene: Upholstery
   
Scene of the MonthYou better get comfortable...
Every girl needs a little break. This month, we'll be remodeling your home - and your sub's attitude - with a little "table training".

Got a sub with ants in his pants? Teach him to sit, stay and be a good boy.

As always: Play safe. Domination is a consensual exchange of trust. If you don’t have a “safe-word” then establish one immediately. Make sure that the only thing your subject has to worry about is what you are going to do to him if he disobeys.

PROLOGUE
You're going to need a little prep time and a few props for this scene. Here's the low-down:

Music: Slow classical music or "downtempo" electronica is a good place to start for this scene. It's meant to be slow, methodical and relaxing (for you at least). I think Servant J is reviewing Massive Attack's latest disk "Mezzanine" this month. That would work quite well.

Restraints:
Your sub will need their wrists and ankles restrained for this one. You might also want to tie them to the chair for the first little bit. This is easily done with rope, but if your not comfortable with that, then a decent set of ankle and wrist restraints will work just fine. Follow your muse, and see what works for you.

Costumes:
Soft and silky is the order of the day. It needs something long, low cut and sexy. For example, the Spanish Inquisition Dress, and the Studded Cross Applique Dress are nearly perfect, but the red Glamour Girl Nightgown works better, because of it's length. You'll see what I mean...

Your sub should be dressed in underwear that is snug enough to hold everything in place, but allowing you easy access if you need it.

Accessories:
The most important accessories for this scene are a blindfold, bottle of your favorite wine, beer, sparkling grape juice, soda, water or whatever YOU want to drink, and a wine glass (Only a wine glass will do, because they are sexy and curvy.) You might also want a little spanker, or a little tiny flog, and have some lube handy. Other accessories are up to you. C&B restraints are really good for this scene, as are plugs...if your sub is into that. (Safety first-- Always.) You might also want to have a "video" handy if that's your thing.

Last, but not least: If you are worried about spills, make sure to keep something nearby to clean them up. If your sub gets shaky, this scene could get a little messy.


ACTION
During the course of this scene, your sub will become you footstool...literally. As well as your table, cupholder and chair, but we'll get to that.

Set the scene as usual with candles and music. If you are using a video have it playing as well, but preferably with the sound off. Have the drink and glass sitting out where your sub can see them, and all of the accessories within easy reach of your play area.

Bring your sub in fully clothed and make him undress in front of you. If he laughs or tries to be silly, promise him that he is only making things worse on himself. Make him put on the underwear you have picked out for him, and have him kneel. Once he is in position, ask him the questions (See our previous scenes such as Training Day if you don't know what the questions are), while circling him and taking small sips from the glass. Make sure that your sub gets a chance to see the glass, and that it is relatively full. Make him continue to answer the questions as you blindfold him.

Now, while he is on his knees you might as well allow him to pleasure you a little, as well...just don't let him get to out of control with his hands.

When you're ready to move on have your poor little man-thing hold out his hands, wrists together, palms up as though he is making a tiny table. If you are planning on binding his wrists, do so now. One thing that I like to do at this point is drain my glass. The sub is blindfolded, and can't see it, so he thinks it's full. This is up to you, but if you want to ensure that your boy doesn't make a mess, it's a good idea. Place your glass on his outstretched palms, and warn him not to drop it. "I'm giving you something easy to do. Don't fail me." (...Sigh...where's J when I need him? Anyway....)

Proceed to lightly tease your pet lightly with fingers and tongue, using whatever method you see fit, but avoiding his most sensitive areas. I like to caress and kiss/lick the neck. Nails on the back work well, but remember that your pet is concentrating on not dropping that glass. If you shake him so much that he drops it, he's probably going to protest, and then things will really get ugly. Also remember that his arms are going to get tired pretty quickly. About 5 minutes of this should be about enough for him. Feel free to take a drink now and then. Just get the glass back into a place where it's balanced on his hands before you let it go.

Take your glass back, and have your pet drop to all fours. Place the glass on his back, and remind him that the only thing he has to do is keep that glass from spilling. Depending on your personal tastes, this is a great chance for some hard-core fondling, spanking, foot worship (my fave in this particular instance), or toy play. Rule #1, though: "That glass is mine. If you don't respect the glass, you don't respect me. Don't make me teach you respect!"

Reclaim the glass again and set it aside. Your sub is now on his knees, waiting to see what will happen next. Again this part is somewhat up to you. I like to take a few minutes to spank my sub, make him repeat the answers to the questions, tell me what I want to hear...Whatever you see fit. The sub is yours, and he's in a prone position and helpless. Do your best to make him feel like the object that he is. If you have a sexual relationship with your sub then making them have an orgasm now is a cool way to set up for the last part of the scene.

You've done a lot of work. You need a break, right? Remove your sub's blindfold and settle yourself into a comfortable seat. Have your sub crawl to the front of the couch, and prop your feet up on his back. Remember, your putting extra pressure on his poor little spine, so don't be too brutal here, but otherwise show him that you are comfortable sipping your wine, watching your video and using him as your personal footstool.

Whenever you're ready, finish out the scene by making him pleasure you in whatever way you see fit. He's already on the floor, and you're already on the couch....I'm just sayin'....

Remember that if you're having a glass of wine, the best way to hold your liquor is by the ears!!



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