Who do you want to be? How do you want to look?

Start here with these very basic items. Then build your collection as you gain experience. Don't force yourself into a sterotypical version of what you think your sub expects. Find what works for YOU. You must feel comfortable, powerful, and in control. Feel free to experiment with different looks until you approach perfection.

	The Outfit Leather, vinyl, or satin. You are the Goddess. It's YOUR choice. What makes you feel sexy and in control? Who do you want to be? Other items to complete your look: a mask (my personal fave), wig, whip or riding crop, makeup
	Shoes The sex is in the heel. So is the power. Get some ass kickers that say who's in charge. Leave no doubt.
	Accessories Try a beginner's beginner's restraint kit or other accessories.
	Pet Wear Start with a leather thong, or a tiny outfit that shows off his ass and pleases you. Next, think about what you need to keep him check and make sure he knows his place -- perhaps a dog collar and a leash to go with it. For more ideas, see the article on Creative Pet Dressing.

You might like to order your sub to purchase a particular item for you, as part of his preparation for an upcoming encounter. One way to do this is by email. Make sure your Inner Bitch has her own email address and that your sub recognizes it. Be specific in your instructions on what exactly to purchase, whether he should email you back to confirm he recieved your message, and how he should present the item to you at your encounter. Be sure he thanks you for allowing him to serve you. If it's an item for me to wear, I may order my sub to dress me in it, especially if it is shoes or boots.

Don't be afraid to try a whole new look for yourself. YOU are the boss. There is no wrong way. Only YOUR way.