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How to Be a Dominatrix - Embracing Your Inner Bitch    
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 October 22, 2014

Top Ten Spanking Tips
The Art of AuthorityA top-ten list to make your spanking experience more enjoyable for you, and for your plaything.

10. Start with your bare hand ... .... on a bare ass. Try one cheek at a time.

9. Next, vary your instruments: paddle, hairbrush, whip, riding crop, newspaper, your leather glove. Find what pleases you most.

8. Gage whether you're hitting hard enough by his reaction, not by asking him questions. If he barely winces, then you clearly need to hit harder.

7. Vary the positions - Have him bend over your knee.... with his hands behind his head. Or, Put him on all fours, and hold his hair in your fist with one hand, while you paddle him with the other.

6. Tell him how naughty he has been. OR, have him tell YOU how naughty he has been, and what exactly he has done or thought that makes him deserve punishment.

5. Tell him to thank you for each smack.

4. Take your time. Enjoy the fine art of spanking. Do not rush between smacks.

3. Handcuff him with his hands behind his back. Or tie his hands up high so his arms are above his head.

2. If you have long hair, brush it over his back and ass between smacks.

1. Cool his buns with some ice in between smacks. This makes for an especially nice sting for the next smack.


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Top Ten Spanking Tips
Authored by: Ginger on July 29, 2008

Gawd I love spanking.

Top Ten Spanking Tips
Authored by: whippingboy on August 15, 2008

Are subs allowed to post here? I hope so. Great tips. I can't wait to be punished. Do Mistresses get mad when their subs are naughty on purpose? hee hee.

Top Ten Spanking Tips
Authored by: Mistress Dimples on September 30, 2008

Yes spanking with my bare hand on bare ass instead on grabbing for my paddles or whips get my sub back in order

Top Ten Spanking Tips
Authored by: WickedLady on May 24, 2009

First of all I love this site. This is something that all my friends and boyfriends in high school always said they could see me doing. I never had the nerve to. I'm a natural bitch and I love to bite and scratch, but until now, I'm more of a sub when it comes to my bedroom.

I've been wanting to surprise my hubby for a while and this site gave me loads of ideas. i think this would be a very pleasant surprise for hubby seeing how even he doesn't like to be in charge all the time. LOL

My hubby spanks me and this morning he saw where he had spanked me and told me that he felt he was too rough because I have some bruising. I told him I was fine. I was hurting and I wasn't in any pain that was too much for me the other night. I think he'll ease up for fear of hurting me, but I have a high tolerance for pain. I once broke my arm when I was 6 or so and never cried. the only reason I went to the ER was my mom noticed I was holding my arm funny(for 4 hours) and I was still rough housing with my guy cousins. lol

Top Ten Spanking Tips
Authored by: TDomme on March 29, 2011

Personally, This Mistress has kids so when looking for a sub, I am looking for one who ISN'T a S.A.M!!!

Top Ten Spanking Tips
Authored by: Joy on September 18, 2011

What's a S.A.M.????

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