9. Next, vary your instruments: paddle, hairbrush, whip, riding crop, newspaper, your leather glove. Find what pleases you most.

8. Gage whether you're hitting hard enough by his reaction, not by asking him questions. If he barely winces, then you clearly need to hit harder.

7. Vary the positions - Have him bend over your knee.... with his hands behind his head. Or, Put him on all fours, and hold his hair in your fist with one hand, while you paddle him with the other.

6. Tell him how naughty he has been. OR, have him tell YOU how naughty he has been, and what exactly he has done or thought that makes him deserve punishment.

5. Tell him to thank you for each smack.

4. Take your time. Enjoy the fine art of spanking. Do not rush between smacks.

3. Handcuff him with his hands behind his back. Or tie his hands up high so his arms are above his head.

2. If you have long hair, brush it over his back and ass between smacks.

1. Cool his buns with some ice in between smacks. This makes for an especially nice sting for the next smack.