Ahhhh, men...If you ask them to take out the garbage they call you controlling, but if you tie them up and spank them, they call you whatever you want.

Let's get one thing perfectly clear, here: RULES are for subs. Period. Case closed. End of story. Having said that, allow me to elaborate....

With a few flicks of my flog -- or my tongue if I'm feeling generous -- I can have ServantJ calling me everything from his "Queen" to his "Empress". I've even had him calling me "Sister Blaze"...but we won't get into that.

At the end of the day it's about teaching your sub to do what you tell them to do. Whether you feel like being their Matron, their Queen or their Goddess is strictly up to you. Maybe you don't feel like being called anything. Your rules are the rules and that's what matters.

Not sure what you want to be today? Grab your box of goodies and see which title your sub can say with a gag in his mouth.

Until Next Time --

~Blaze~

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