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How to Be a Dominatrix - Embracing Your Inner Bitch    
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 October 23, 2014

Plus Size Dominatrix
Look the PartNot everyone is a skinny bitch like the dommes portrayed on tv and movies. Most of us are real women. Big Beautiful Women. Women who don't deprive themselves in order to fit society's vision of what we should be.

Your interest in this topic probably has more to do with clothing than anything else, so let's start there.

Clothing can be a special challenge for a plus size dominatrix. You can't exactly walk into the mall to find something off the rack. This is where the beauty of internet shopping comes in. I have found Amazon.xom to be a wonderful resource for the sexy big beautiful woman. Not only do they carry sweet sensual underthings, but they also have leather, vinyl and a few naughty things. And the best part is that most of it is available up to size 3X.

Next, Let's play up your strong points. It's not uncommon to wonder if you have any strong points when you are not society's prescribed version of beautiful. But trust me, you do. I am quite sure they include the following:

  • Your eyes -- Go to youtube and watch a few videos on eyeshadow techniques. You'll be amazed at what you can do with those georgeous peepers and a few bold colors.
  • Your hair -- Try a big wig if you feel you need more in the hair department.
  • Your hands -- Treat yourself to a manicure with long red nails.
  • Your fabulously large breasts -- show them off. Cleavage rules, and plus size girls have a major advantage over skinny bitches in this department.

Just be Real. Be a Real Woman who enjoys the finer things, who knows what she wants and takes it. You are in charge - So buy whatever you want..


Still need help?  Try the Mistress Manual or Rock His World with a Leather Outfit

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Plus Size Dominatrix
Authored by: Ginger on October 19, 2009

OMG. Thank you for this article! Big girls are sexy too!! So true!

Plus Size Dominatrix
Authored by: MsBlack on January 23, 2010

If you're a British Boudicca then is a great place to start!!!

Plus Size Dominatrix
Authored by: Webmistress on March 18, 2010

Let's go shopping!!! Please use the links above, and it will help support this site! Thanks Ladies!

Plus Size Dominatrix
Authored by: darkness on June 13, 2010

My Mistress is a big beautiful lady , and i belive she would benifit from this talk

Plus Size Dominatrix
Authored by: Madame Sin on September 15, 2010

Yes, I am a big beautiful woman and I'm a domme and it's very
true that finding clothing in my size, even online, can be irritating.
Especially if when I do find a website that supplies plus sized
clothing, the clothing isn't the same quality or isn't what I want. I
know hips and curves is good and that wicked temptations has
plus sized clothing, but please if anybody has any more links for
plus sized domme apparel I would most certainly appreciate it.

~Madame Sin

Quit bitching, you know you like it.

Plus Size Dominatrix
Authored by: NeroRosaImmortal on April 05, 2011

I love this, Mistress Blaze!

I have a hard time finding anything I like- so I'd prefer to get a few key versatile pieces, then accessorise to show my real self! Do you think you could write an article on said versatile pieces? That way, I have an idea of what to look for?

Plus Size Dominatrix
Authored by: MissJ on September 15, 2011

Love the site! Thing is, I am not having a problem with finding plus clothing but what I am having trouble with is finding thigh high and knee high boots. I have extremely thick calves and thighs (regardless of how hard I work them), I am putting in an order for 2 pairs from Torrid tonight that may work, but I was wondering if anyone knew of other sites that offer sexy extra wide calf and thigh high boots. The sites I have found that do carry wider thigh highs only offer 2 different pairs, and honestly they aren't as sexy as I would like (especially for my upcoming scenes with a slave who has a boot fetish.) So any suggestions would be greatly appreciated ladies!

Plus Size Dominatrix
Authored by: GoddessRose on July 04, 2012

I have looked at Hips and Curves quite a few times. I love it and they have such a wide, and sexy selection, which is hard to find in the plus size department.

Plus Size Dominatrix
Authored by: lunarya on August 06, 2014

I would suggest these two sit
Though I'm a new domme

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