This scene is all about feeding your sub's sexual appetite, and then punishing him for enjoying it. Be ready to give your sub a little attention, all the while making sure he stays in his place.

Hello, bitches, and I use the term MOST affectionately. This month's scene is a little nasty, and a little mean, but that's we do things around here, isn't it? Let's get to it, shall we?

As always: Play safe. Domination is a consensual exchange of trust. If you don’t have a “safe-word” then establish one immediately. Make sure that the only thing your subject has to worry about is what you are going to do to him if he disobeys.

PROLOGUE
Setting up this scene is easy. All you need is a willing sub and the skin you're in.

Music:
Set the mood with some candles and music. I find that Drum and Bass music is good for a scene like this, because it tends to drift between frantic and subdued quite a bit. Check out servant j's music selections for some ideas. He's not good for much, but he's good at picking music that sets the tone for this sort of thing.

Restraints: For this particular scene, you will need access to your sub's body, and that MIGHT require him to be able to squirm a little bit. Leather Wrist Restraints are a good way to keep his hands where you want them. If you're feeling a little more extreme, Metal Wrist and Ankle Cuffs are good too. Just be careful you don't forget the keys, and make sure that your sub knows how to get out of them in an emergency. Remember: It's YOUR job to make sure things stay safe and sane.

Costumes:
We're trying to teach our sub self-control, and encouraging him to lose it at the same time, so for this scene I like something revealing, but not too much so (for example, a BFF Robe and Babydoll set, or Chinoiserie Robe). Your pet should be wearing nothing at all. Unless you want to strap him into some...

...Accessories:
C&B Restraints are a good way to add a little frustration to this sort of scene, as they allow access to all of his sensitive parts, but they restrain his ability to feel it properly. I'm not a fan of the one-piece metal ones as they create too many "what-if" situations. The leather and rubber ones are excellent, generally inexpensive, and can be cut off in an emergency.

ACTION
Get yourself dressed and set the scene as completely as possible before getting your plaything involved. Think of it like a wedding. You want his jaw to hit the floor the moment he sees you. This part is all about tantalizing him, and making him feel like the next hour or so is going to be all about him...it's not, of course, but he doesn't know that.

*DON'T LET HIM SEE THE RESTRAINTS OR THE C&B TOYS YET!!!*

After leading him into the scene you've set it's time to get him dressed - or undressed as the case may be. Touch him. Kiss him if you like. Do whatever he likes. Remember, we're trying to build his hopes - and his sexual tension - up to a point where pulling the rug out from under him will be even more of a shock.

Once his mind and body are ready for action it's time to spring the trap. Have him sit or lie down in your appointed spot, and restrain him. Keep everything slow and ceremonious. The "start/stop" thing drives men insane! Pay him a little more attention after he is restrained, and then apply the C&B restraint. At this point you should shift into full dominatrix mode.

Ask the questions you should always ask when your sub is under your control:

• What's My name? (Your Domme name, of course. Be ready to punish him if he gets it wrong or smiles.)
• Who do you belong to?
• What is your safe word?

Ask them often during this excersize. He needs to be ready to answer, even when he doesn't want to. A *light* tap on the testicles with a spanker is a good reminder not to get out of line.

Once you're happy with your subject's response go back to whetting his sexual appetite. At this point, it's time to ramp up the sexual attention a good bit. Take him close to "the point of no return", and then make him answer the questions again. You might want to consider showing him a little more of your body as well. You are in control. Repeat this sequence as much as you like, letting your sub touch you whenever you want and adding in spanking or whatever gets you off. It's your show, so don't let him get the upper hand.

Whenever you are ready to take things to the next level it's time to take the sexuality up another notch. This is where things get intense. Look him in the eyes while pleasuring him with your hand and tell him that he is not allowed under any circumstances to have an orgasm. Tell him how angry you will be if he does. Tell him that he is weak, and can't even control himself. Remind him of his position - bound and whipped - and let him know that there will be consequences if he cums. Then stop talking, and do everything within your power to please him.

Stop often and remind him that you're in charge, and he is NOT ALLOWED to enjoy it. Keep emphasizing how weak he is, and how mad you will be if he gets off without your permission. If you feel the urge stop and spank him occasionally if he starts getting too frisky, but whatever you do remember this is about humiliating him when he finally gets over the top, and has to have an orgasm.

There will come a point when your sub can't control himself anymore, and his body will take over. How you handle this is up to you, but my favorite thing to do is to stop whatever I was doing to him, and finish the job with my hand letting him make as much of a mess as he is able. The reason for this is so that I can show him what a mess he's made, and chastise him like a dog that's peed on the carpet. Of course he enjoyed it, but I want to make sure that he knows that I am not pleased. It's up to you whether or not to spank him for his disobedience, leave him tied up on the floor for a while as punishment, or allow him to thank you for not beating him severely by returning the favor.

However you finish the scene, be sure to remind him that he was a bad boy, and that the next time "Mistress (Insert Your Name Here)" comes for a visit, there will be hell to pay!