I might have a suggestion, possibly.

My sub lives in another state while I got to school. Granted he lives an hour away from me. But I try to keep him on a short lesh.

Usually, reminding him who he belongs to either through email, text, IM, or having him wear a ring (or something sentimental), usually works with my sub.

I have the same situation and tried something that worked rather well. I waited until my pet was in a relatively public place, and talked him through a scenario that made him really, really excited. I then instructed him to imagine that scenario later on in his hotel room and to please himself until he got close, but explained that he was not permitted to release. I further instructed that he could not release until after 5 am the next morning and promised him a reward for his obedience. I informed him that his disobedience would mean we would be out of contact for at least 24 hrs, something he could not bear. He obeyed like the good little man bitch he is. To reward him, I sent him a photo of myself that I knew he would die for.

This worked quite well and we both enjoyed it.

Does anyone else have suggestions on additional ways I can torment my pet from afar?

~Mistress Minx

Make him wear your underwear. I only see my pet usually before school, between classes, and after school for a few minutes. But he keeps thinking about me because of wearing my underwear and a collar with my name on it.

Try a cock chastity device.
http://www.manhuntshop.com/steel-chastity-cock-cage_1107.html

I love it. You lock that cock in and you put the key around your neck in front of him. Tel him to be good. LOL

Be careful. You want it to fit him well or it can be painful. It turns them on knowing that you own that cock and after you release it he thinks you are a goddess!! LOL

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MistressC

Both my devoted pets live so far away and only things I can do is online. I need some help with what I should do as a punishment to them. Earlier I had both whip themselves on the belt with a belt. I need to know what else I should I am out of ideas, it's so hard when they are so far away. Plus I am broke so I can't buy anything at the moment. One of my pets use to be a Dom, and can be challenging at times, I need to know how to kill the aggression. Also one of my other pets have been a pet for years, but also can be challenging. I need a means of punishment.

I am not sure what level of control I can have on my Sub he has suggested seeing another dom for some pain whilst overseas; I am VERY uncomfortable about this as I was under the impression I was in control remotely and he has sworn I was his ONLY dom. I stil want to be l in control and able to satisfy him. Perhaps this is an indication that he wants more. I have given my SUb every possible fantasy and this feels like betrayal. SOme advice from fellow doms would be great.