A quick dominatrics 'how to' guide. As in, "How to be a Dominatrics"
Ok, for starters, if you're going to be it, let's learn how to spell it. You found this page because you searched for the term "dominatrics" or maybe even "dominatricks". The word is actually "Dominatrix". You can also use the term Dom or Domme (a feminine version). Some people even like to use the term "Domma" or "Domina" which is also fine. Be sure to use a capital letter. After all, it's all about us -- if you're number one, then you need to make sure your name or any reference to you is capitalized. Remember the opposite for your sub, because your sub doesn't deserve capital letters, not even for his name. If you just want to call him "slave" that's fine too. Call him whatever you want. Do it especially when you are writing him a little note, telling him where to meet you or what he is supposed to wear or do.
OK, so here are some dominatrix ideas or 'how to':
1) Begin by reading everything you can on the subject. Learn as much as you can to get yourself fully into the right frame of mind.
2) Purchase a few props and articles of clothing .. Have I mentioned how much I LOVE shopping? (check the column on the right of this page for shopping links)
3) Develop your attitude. Don't be wishy washy. Make a decision and stick to it. Or change your mind if you wish, but don't go back and forth. Focus on the fact that you are in charge, and your way is the only right way. Period.
4) Begin with a plan or a "scene". Try one of the beginning scenes that we have described on this site, particularly the Training Day scene. These scenes are great for beginners because it gives you step by step suggestions on what to say and do.
5) Continue to visit us for more ideas. Start by visiting any of the topics below... Let your imagination run. Let your inner bitch flow... Enjoy!