I agree it is entirely up to YOU!! More importantly you make your sub wear red/ pink etc my own sub loves ALL that his dom gives him to wear and as such his obedience is improved in his red nursemaids outfit, red bra and red stockings. I think that black is true noir and power colour of dommes but it can definitely be spiced up with red as I often do myself...my sub is entirely at ease and is more receptive to my whip and cane in his dom chosen wear. Why not have fun and buy a purple rabbit or dildo ,my sub and I are having tremdous fun with these toys which moves us away from black.....Your colours which make you feel strongest, sexiest and powerful should be your choice. Dress your sub as you mean to take charge and control him and he will obey and love his dom more!!

Of course my Dom looks incredibly powerful and sexy in black, especially when she wears her stilletto platforms. However, as a sub, I know that my dom will also be served fully if she wears red or as a very special treat for her sub, leopard skin print clothes and lingerie. My dom certainly knows how to exude power and authority whatever she is wearing (on top and underneath). A very satisfied sub!