I mean, seriously, no Diva can totally dominate someone without some amazing shoes.

This video from the Liam Show on Youtube always makes me laugh. It's an Internet sensation. I posted it below just in case you are one of the three people left on earth that hasn't seen it yet. (Warning: turn the sound down if little ones are present because the F word makes a loud appearance several times.) This HeShe featured in the video knows what she wants, and he/she wants it now. She wants some shoes, betch!

If you don't know where to begin for your "outfit", start with the shoes. They are your foundation. Build the rest of your look from there. Get what YOU want, not what you think he wants. Figure out what it is that it is that you want to say about yourself. They don't have to be comfortable. They need to kick ass. They need to scream that you are in charge. They certainly shouldn't be practical. Who want's a practical mistress? Certainly not me. And certainly not anyone who is willing to be dominated by you.

Your shoes need to reveal your inner bitch (or 'betch' if you prefer). You probably want heels. Stilettos. High ones. Very high. Give yourself a lot of height. As a Domme, you will feel more powerful if you can look down on your subjects. Better make them crawl around on their knees if you still can't get enough height on them. Nevertheless, the added height from your normal every day wear, will give you a good feeling of confidence.

Now, whether you choose boots or pumps is up to you. Think about what the rest of your outfits might look like. An investment in some good shoes will go a long way with many different looks if you choose carefully. Do you prefer regular leather or the shinier patent leather or vinyl look? Get both if you can't decide. A girl can always change her mind, you know!

Anyway, I always love to sing the catchy little ditty in this video whenever I am shoe shopping. Try it. You can't help yourself. ...... Shoes. Let's get some shoes!