While he is on lockdown, if he gets smart or gives me attitude I add time accordingly to his sentence. Sometimes I give him warnings. Three warnings equal one day. Other times if he really pisses me off I just give him another day or two right off the bat. We keep a calendar on the frig to keep track. Several times I have had to fill the whole month and then some. Needless to say my husband is listening to me alot more lately and is alot more cooperative. By the way, he has been on 'lockdown' for almost 6 weeks. I just might let him out for a couple of hours.

He says being on 'lockdown' and wearing my panties has turned out to be a real turn on for him. He says he thinks about me all day. Our communication has improved and he is alot more interested in me and pleasing me. I had no idea being a dom would be so much fun and so much good for our relationship.