I have a question obviously, but before I get into that....I just wanted to thank you so much for having this site :) It's been incredibly helpful to me as I begin to explore the world of femdom, and I'm grateful to you for such helpful resources. :)
My boyfriend and I were both virgins before each other, and while we both knew we had an interest in femdom even before each other, we are only just starting to explore it. We have a close, loving relationship, and live together. We are both interested in a more mild form of femdom that never involves pain. He is very good and willing to submit to me in sexual aspects despite being older than I am and holding the traditional male role in the romantic aspect of our relationship. That's how we both want it and we're an impossibly perfect match.
Now for the problem...
I'm very short. I also have a small figure. My legs are curvy and very attractive as I believe my body in its entirety to be (I can be quite vain), but not terribly busty at a smallish b cup. My boyfriend is nine inches taller than me and somewhat on the chubby side, which is exactly what I like (yum...), to the point of not allowing him to work out more than a certain amount.
Essentially, he is much larger than me. I also look very very young for my age, and my voice is high and girlish despite being in my 20s, and incapable of sounding sultry or even somewhat low. I'm certainly attractive and have modeled before, but.....I'm not attractive in the femdom sense in my opinion. Essentially, I look more like a lolli than a dom.
Do you know ways for smaller women to dominate larger men? Ways for girlish women to seem sultry? Any advice at all for someone starting their femdom journey?