Dear Mistress Ryn,

I am happy to tell you I think you have no problem at all. I find it very
exciting to imagine being dominated by a smaller, younger woman, and
I bet your guy does too. Imagine how much more submissive we feel
when we think to ourselves "here's a woman I could easily overpower or
have my way with, who in any other setting would be taking orders from
me. And yet here I am, the one kneeling in front of her. I know, and she
knows, that her size and age are irrelevant -- all she has to do is say a
word and I will obey." It's just psychologically more potent. So, have
confidence in yourself, and enjoy!

Dear Mistress Ryn,

My husband is 14" taller than I am! He's twice my weight.

For us, the thrill of D/s is psychological. If I order him to do something, he happily complies!

Because his job is stressful and he has a lot of responsibility, he enjoys when we "play" and I have complete control. I think we both get an extra rush from the size difference because I'm using my brain to establish dominance. I don't have to be big or strong -- I just have to be confident and know what makes him tick.

Good luck!