After reading your post Lady Gray, I was thinking about how much fun and control your missing out on.. I keep my slave/husband chastized 24/7 until I want him out then immediatly its placed back on. Along with that I also make him wear lingerie daily for me, from the time he drys off from his morning shower, during his work day(as I of course do not work.... lol) then he comes home to promptly disrobe his work clothes to reveil his humiliating undergarments, then to clean 1 room spotless of MY house, then to make me dinner.. A few times a week I even make him sleep in his lingerie to further his humilaton and to strengthen my control!! So Lady Gray, let go of "your" intimidation and place it upon your sub.. Im certain it will pleasure you much more than him. his charcter will weaken every second while wearing, as you grow stronger every second.. Plus for some reason, having your sub wearing lingerie somehow magically keeps them very horny and the hornier they are the more obeident they are.. lol.. Take him shoppin to Victoria Secrets, and when the sales lady asks you if you need help, say yes, im looking for something sexy for him.. then watch his humiliation run through.. lol.. just a few ideas for you Lady Gray.. Im sure this won't be intimidating for you any longer..just remember it only will benefit you!!!

I have always loved transvestites and drag queens; one of the first things I thought of doing was dressing my pup up. I am planning on practicing with him a lot taking pictures and such, and eventually make him up and take him out on the town as a lady.

My husband confessed the same thing to me 10 years ago. I have found that feminizing him makes him a very obedient slave. He is now my maid. He gets up in the morning, puts on one of his uniforms and serves me coffee on his knees as he kisses my feet. Great way to start the day! He has a list of chores and I only do what I want to. I especially love training him to be my personal maid. I always get compliments on my toenails and I give him the credit. I love coming home on Fridays and seeing my handwashed panties and bras hanging up in the bedroom. I insist he is in female lingerie when in the house and he really does have a great collection of lingerie. I love to make him prance around in a nightie, bra, garter belt, stocking and high heels and then look at himself in the mirror while I tell him "See what I can make you do." I recently found a store that lets him try on items in the store and that is great fun. Don't be nervous- if you really want the rewards with totally controlling a man, I can't think of a better way of doing it. How can a man argue with you when he is in a little pink nightie?

I am very new to all of this!!! The new man in my life is hoping that I become his Mistress, we have only acted out a cpl of small things but one thing he loves its to dress in woman's clothing. We have gone so far as to buy him fake boobs. I was really freaked out when he told me this, so as a lead in might I suggest getting him to dress up and show you over a web cam. Tha'ts what my guy did and even ended up doing a little strip tease for me. It was fun and got me really excited, now we see "her" quite a bit. Hope this helps

I had a pet that responded very well to wearing my panties. My starting him out with that will be the best thing, and turned out to be all I really like about feminization. I loved how contrasting it was to see him hard and encased in a pair of all lace boy shorts.

I don't consider doing housework a 'female' job, ,so he did it because he was told to do it. Find what you're comfortable with. Beyond wearing the panties I didn't want him any more feminized. To me, more feminization takes out the excitement. I love the power of controlling a man. Period. No makeup. No women's clothing. But the lacey panties? Oh yeah.

Just go as far as you feel comfortable. It's really all about you, not him.

I am new slave looking for a mistress to train me. I have been looking all over the internet on various sites with no luck. I would be very happy if a lady here could help me out with my situation.