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 February 06, 2012

Intimate Evenings		    
Contributed by: miss sara ~ April 23, 2010

Reader Q & AOk ladies, here’s something I like to do with my man some evenings when I’m feeling a little frisky!

The below ideas aren't overly dominant by the standards of this site, but it's a good guide for couples who are otherwise vanilla in their everyday lives to try out.

When we get home from work I would plant the seed that I would be interested on fooling around later in the evening, and would do this by being flirtatious. It also helps to feel him up a bit, but try to resist him groping you too much. Playing hard to get always drives men crazy!


Of course I like to set up some obstacles before things get heated. So I would tell him to fix us dinner, what I’d like to eat & when I’d like it to be ready. I’d then proceed to sit on the couch & read a few magazines. Sometimes if he’s waiting around for something to cook, I’ll have him come to the couch & take off my heels & give me a foot rub. Luckily my man is quite eager to do this, which suits the both of us to a tee! After dinner I’ll have him tidy up & load the dishwasher. It’s good to make a point of watching him do this without helping him. All he needs from his lady is direction & encouragement!

At this point perhaps request him to run a bath for you. Have him light some candles for you if that’s your thing. Once you are ready for your bath, you can dismiss him from the bathroom, maybe give him a few chores to keep him occupied.


Afterward, slip into some lingerie & hide it behind your robe. Inspect any chores you assigned him, and praise him if he’s done well. Alternatively if things aren’t up to your satisfaction, make sure you let him know in no uncertain terms. Escort him to the bedroom, where you can remove the robe to reveal yourself, and start turning up the heat! Enjoy the process of removing any clothing he happens to be wearing, he won’t be needing it any longer.

Always encourage him to go down on you first, keep him down there until your satisfied. Then you can return the favor in whichever way you see fit. Whether you go down on him, stroke him or (if your feeling a tad tired after a long day at work) have him stroke himself while you supervise (best to have him kneeling in front of you whist you sit on the bed for this) either way it’s up to you. Perhaps maybe before he cums, you might want to reward him (and yourself) with some lovemaking, but again this is up to you, run with your own instincts.


You’ll love being served & pampered for an evening, and any young, virile heterosexual male will eventually grow to love overcoming the obstacles in order to earn the intimate moments you share with him.


If anyone has any questions or comments to share I'd love to hear them!
 

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