You say you have your slave in chastity. Why don't both of you go into the appropriate kind of store him following behind you, -- and even better -- if the store has female assistants, make it obvious that you're in charge. Then you start looking for strap on dildos that are much, much, longer and thicker than him, and laugh loudly as you exclaim, "God this is much bigger than you slave!"

Select 2 or 3, and you pay for them since slave has no money of his own. "What a nice birthday present for me slave!" You could cackle as you leave the store. Once home, have your slave use lots of pillows to almost make seat for you at the head of your bed. Then as you unwrap your 12 inch cock, have him fetch you some wine and your cigarettes, and your cellphone.

Then have him strap it on -- over his cb, and slowly begin to 'make love' to you with it. Of course he wont feel a thing, but you will. Blow smoke in his face as you sneer at him and say, "Oh slave, this is so so much better than you."

Have him pause as you sip your wine and say, "This cock never goes soft slave. Kinda makes your pencil dick a bit redundant doesn't it?"

Then as he carries on going deeper and trying desperately to please you, phone one of your girlfriends grinning wickedly at him as you chat away as if he didn't even exist.

Hahaha! Oh I love the idea of that! I'm not a smoker, but the thought of just having him using strap-on on me -- instead of his poor cock locked away in its chastity device - Hahaha just brought a huge smile to my face!!! And the look of frustration on his face would be gold!

Meeeow! I love this idea. Although, personally, I'd probably order my slave to make the purchase for me (or give him my money and order him to buy it), and not allow him to speak the entire time to anyone in the store but me. If the store attendant spoke to him, he would have to look at me and I would answer for him.

And even if the dildo you found were the same or smaller than his, you could still humiliate him by telling him how much bigger and better it is. In fact, that might even be more humiliating than being compared to a monster rod.

These ideas are great. Keep them coming, ladies! (and I don't mean your slave! Ha!)

Another even funnier and humiliating version of the above is as follows:

If you have already started cuckolding your hubby, and you have a few well, endowed regulars you could make casts of them then fill the casts with quick setting rubber then simply attach it to a different strap on. That way you can tease and taunt your hubby even more by telling him right to his face 'this is why I love it when douglas or mike is inside me, hubby !!!!

Another variation? Call douglas on the phone and chat ridicule your hubby to him without douglas knowing what your doing, and relish the desperation on your hubby's face as he tries to please you, and you simply gloat at his pathetic efforts.

Verbal abuse is actually easier than most people would realize. Just think back to the elementary school playground. The best way for kids to humiliate someone was by verbally playing on their weaknesses. Words from your childhood that still hang around and always humiliate to the core. Come up with a list of these words and use them on him, over and over and over. Figure out which ones sting the most and use an endless list of variations of that word.

A few words to get you started: Stupid. Fatso. Ugly. Lazy. Crybaby. Dummy. Loser. Moron. Sissy. Chicken. Idiot. Pig.

Make sure this is really what he wants before you get started though. Crops and whips may scar his hide, but words will scar his precious psyche clean to the bone, so use them wisely and "lovingly"!