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How to Be a Dominatrix - Embracing Your Inner Bitch    
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 July 31, 2010

Have only a month experience/My slave is 11yrs experience.
   
Reader Q & AI am completely challenged. I am very new to this whole thing of being a Domme. My slave gets so helpless and weak by just looking at my picture. He always tells me that my beauty to him is so powerful.

We started playing few weeks ago, and he said I was good the first time I played with him. So far, I have only done basic play with him (spanking, cuffing, and humiliating him). He is so experienced and I am not.

I want to get solid ideas of how to be better while playing with him. He once told me that he could barely talk while we are playing. Sometimes, I feel powerless while he give me ideas. How do I improve in action to completely make him as weak as he is while he look at my pictures? help

 
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Have only a month experience/My slave is 11yrs experience.
Authored by: Mistress_Blaze on February 02, 2010

My Dear Mistress Storm,

It sounds as if you have a great start that he is already putty in your hands! He can barely speak. Good, no need to waste time gagging him, unless you just feel like it.

If you feel powerless while he is telling you suggestions, then make him do it another way -- for example, tell him to write it down on paper. Order him to make a list of ten things, or twenty that he wants done to him. Then only do them if you feel like it.

Believe me, once your confidence builds, the ideas will begin flowing.

Have only a month experience/My slave is 11yrs experience.
Authored by: assoc1 on April 16, 2010

try this get some high quality photos taken of yourself in full domme
regalia 6 inch heel thigh boots corset full make up etc select one
shot from behind to display your ass which he no doubt wants to
worship be looking over your shoulder straight at the camera and
make sure the camera is shooting up at you then the same from the
front then get them blown up to life size or maybe a bit larger
for more impact. despite your fantastic body it has to be set off by the
look on your face your eyes your lips you could be grinning down
at him wickedly or with a hint of scorn......... then play a
blindfold game and tether his head to the foot of YOUR bed kneeling on
the floor as you dress up prior to this hang both posters of you at the
head of your bed and train a spotlight on them . thewn leave notepad
and pen on the bed in front of him. onceyou're dressed turn off the
main ligts so the room is dark. then take off his blindfold and stand
enticingly in the doorway ' right loverboy i'm going out on the town
with the girls while i'm gone you're going to write 50 things you love
and adore about me ok? 'in the dark?' then turn on the
spotlight 'have fun my little asswipe I'M going to' see you later
a lot later ha ha ' and shut the door then let him hear you cackling
as you leave.


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