I am currently learning how to be a Dominatrix and have found a willing sub and I have to say I am loving it so far. I did not really have a clue where to start but found this site and read it all before beginning. I found it the most helpful thing to me yet, so thank you.
My problem is not only am I new, but my sub is as well PLUS he lives miles away from me. I have read the Q&As on long distance and telephone domination and am grateful for the help there. Can anyone offer anything further. Given we are quite restricted I fear the novelty will wear off and there is a chance I can put this into practice in person with him soon, so don't want to ruin it.
So far I made a list of rules he is to to obey to daily, i.e. no playing himself, or looking at my pics, and I have issued punishments such as not letting him release until I say so etc. Also correcting him if he addresses me wrongly etc. I used Training Day ideas the best I could via long distance but I am running out of things fast. Basically I need more punishment ideas. Or other things I can make him do for me.
He is even into the chastity belt idea which I might surprise him with should we meet and take the key home with me, etc.
Any help would be appreciated from anyone. Thank you.
UPDATE FROM MISTRESS BLAZE:
I am republishing this story with a current date in order to get a few more responses. This is a common question on the site and has unique challenges. I caution new dommes about letting him view you via web cam use unless you really trust your sub. There are many privacy and safety issues where this is concerned. Outside of that, you can do many things you can do to reward/punish/control him using the phone, email and text. You can order him to do things and then as reward you can order him to imagine you in certain situations while he masturbates to your instructions. If you use email, I recommend you get a separate account so that you don't accidentally hit that "send" button before you realize it just went to everyone at your office. Take care. I can't wait to see what advice my wonderful readers will post below......